About HeatherLee

Heather is a Daughter of the King, wife to her hunny and mom to their 3 treasures. Homeschooling since 2000, Heather enjoys putting together her own unit studies, lapbooking as well as planning and organizing. Along with her husband, she serves as a leader in their local homeschool support group. Thankful for the grace of God and His strength each day, she relies on Him to help grow to be more like Christ.
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Life Lessons from Little Books

Recently a friend shared some book titles with me. Somewhere along the way, I’d heard of the books, but hadn’t checked into them. This time I did and I’m looking forward to seeing how God will use these books in the lives of our children.

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The titles are: The Princess and The Kiss and The Squire and the Scroll. Each book has a Life Lessons book (sold separately) and coloring book (also sold separately). I’m really excited about the Life Lessons books. For book, the authors have come up with lessons that correspond to the book. Each lesson contains a short devotional, prayer, “jewel of truth”–Scripture, creative focus, royal reminders and helpful hints for parents.squire-and-the-scroll-book.gif

From the back of The Princess and The Kiss: “Picking up where the storybook left off, this easy-to-use devotional covers biblical teaching on purity, relationships, and God’s plans for marriage (or singleness) with your child in a non-threatening and age-appropriate way. These life lessons are packed with wisdom from God’s Word, truths that all young girls need to know as they guard their purity, whether they’re six or sixteen. You and your daughter can build a godly heritage with these short practical, life-changing studies and activities that can be personalized for any age. An optional Princess Purity Ceremony is also included as an exciting and memorable way to formally celebrate your daughter’s growth.”

The boy’s counterpart book is very similar, except with a “knightly” focus.

I hope you will check out these books, and if you do, leave a comment to let me know.

Sometimes we need a reminder

Growing up I attended a Christian school. As part of the discipline procedures, the teachers would give out “reminders”. After a certain number of reminders, some other unpleasant punishment would follow. They were trying to remind us to do good, as to avoid the unpleasant punishment.

I find that I often need reminders–why exercise? Why try to eat healthy? Why do I homeschool? Why continue to be diligent with training my children? Some days are just hard, frustrating and discouraging, and a homeschool mom needs someone to come along beside her and remind her of the bigger picture. Our Heavenly Father is the first One she needs to go to for help. The Lord also has provided her husband, and at times, a good friend to help encourage. My husband often comes to my rescue at the end of a hard day. In addition, I have a good friend that I’ve be known to call and ask, “Tell me why we homeschool again!”

If I fail to reach out for help and “reminders”, I can start down a slippery slope that leads to further discouragement, irritability and other certain unpleasant things.

A friend let me borrow Help! I’m Married to a Homeschooling Mom: Showing Dads How to Meet the Needs of Their Homeschooling Wives by Todd Wilson. On page 32 he says:

We knew very little about homeschooling, except our reasons for doing it:

  1. To protect our children from ungodly, worldly influences.
  2. To train our children to influence the world for Christ.
  3. To teach our children to love God with all their hearts at all times.

Those reasons have been our solid ground because, like every other homeschooling mom, my wife has doubts.

Doubts assail us all. Having our reasons clearly identified serve as a foundational reminder of why we homeschool. Scripture verses written on note cards and taped around the house are also good.

Think about what encourages you and what reminds you to keep going because sometimes we all need a reminder.

Philippians 1:6 For I am confident of this very thing that He who began a good work in you will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus. (NAS)

Lest I forget Thy love for me

King of My Life, I Crown Thee Now

Jennie E. Hussey, 1921

King of my life, I crown Thee now, Thine shall the glory be; Lest I forget Thy thorn-crowned brow, Lead me to Calvary.

Show me the tomb where Thou wast laid, Tenderly mourned and wept;              Angels in robes of light arrayed guarded Thee whilst Thou slept.

Let me like Mary thro’ the gloom, Come with a gift to Thee; Show to me now the empty tomb, Lead me to Calvary.

May I be willing Lord, to bear Daily my cross for Thee; Even Thy cup of grief to share, Thou hast borne all for me.

Refrain:

Lest I forget Gethsemane; Lest I forget Thine agony;                                              Lest I forget Thy love for me, Lead me to Calvary.

Listen to this hymn on Cyberhymnal.org

May you and your family focus on the sacrificial atoning blood of Christ offered for us on the cross.

The Parable of the Lily

Easter Lilies

 The Parable of the Lily written by Liz Curtis Higgs is a great book to do at the end of winter or at the beginning of spring.  This story teaches children about forgiveness with the emphasis on what Christ did for us (EASTER!)

The Homeschoolshare site has a lesson plan/unit study that goes along with this story.

I like this story as it has many lessons to teach:

  • Forgiveness
  • seeds/soil/planting
  • Parable of the Sower (Matthew 13)
  • Disappointment/contentment
  • Thankfulness for the sacrificial, atoning work of Christ on the cross
  • and many more!

Unstacking Issues of Home and Heart

I tend to stack things: papers, laundry, scrapbook materials, books, oh! the list could go on and on. If it can be piled, I pile it. Mostly this is an unconscious act; a pile of school papers gets started slowly, 2-3 sheets at a time. “I’ll grade this later,” “I’ll file this on Saturday,” and soon the pile is 5 inches thick. As so it is with clean laundry, books and other stackable materials. The stacks become a hindrance to the peacefulness and tidiness of my home.

It struck me this week, how I also tend to do this with my heart issues. I set aside hurt feelings, a harsh tone, selfishness, etc. to be dealt with later. However, too often later doesn’t come. As a result, I begin to get irritable, frustrated, sad and unkind with those around me. I get “too busy” to spend time daily with God which, of course, perpetuates the stacking.

Now that I am aware (and convicted) of my stacking, what steps can I take to reduce the stacking and avoid stacking in the future? Whether the stacks be physical (paper, laundry, books) or spiritual (attitudes, feelings, and sins), the starting point is the same. Confess my stacking to God. Ask His forgiveness as well as strength and wisdom to deal with things promptly and purposefully.

Some good practices to cut down on stacking in my home:

  • Handle a piece of paper only once. As soon as paper, books, whatever, come into the house or into my possession, I need to put them in their places.
  • Have a place for everything, including a library shelf or basket for borrowed items.
  • Recycle or throw away things I no longer need or have room to store.
  • Enlist the help of my children with age appropriate chores.

To avoid stacking in my heart:

  • Deal with wrong attitudes and hurt feelings right away-as soon as I’m made aware of them.
  • Keep short accounts of my sin.
  • Make my time with God a daily priority.
  • Ask God to continue to reveal piles that need to be dealt with.
  • Be on the look-out for the warning flags-unkindness to others, frustration, irritability, etc.
  • Rely on God’s Word and the Holy Spirit to guide my thoughts and actions.

Below is one of my favorite quotes:

A cup brimful of sweetness cannot spill even one drop of bitter water, no matter how suddenly it is jarred. Amy Carmichael

My cup can only be filled to the brim with sweetness if I’m walking closely with the Lord, obeying and leaning on Him. My desire is that my heart not be filled with stacks, but of sweetness; His sweetness and goodness.

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